If you are in a dysfunctional ASD/NT (NeuroDivergent) relationship and want to improve your communication and save your sanity, I'm offering you something that will help…

Let me explain…

I am NeuroTypical and have spent a lifetime living with ASDs, or NeuroDiverse people… 

My mother, my spouse, and my daughter.

As a psychologist, when I couldn't figure out how to help my family, I felt like a failure.

I read books, sought out therapists (great therapists, but ones who didn’t fully understand how to help clients with this specific issue), and attended conferences searching for answers and a healthy, healing path. Nothing worked…and all the while, the chaos and suffering in my family escalated. I was engulfed by health complaints, financial problems, and legal matters….

Then I began to look at all these profoundly stressful challenges in a new way.

I discovered my own path to sanity, serenity, and productivity --- while still mired in NeuroDivergent relationships.

And in the intervening 20+ years, I’ve made it my life mission to help others find this healing path, too.

Expanding my knowledge and skill base made me sought after by clients from around the world, who seek my fresh approach to these very tough relationships.

I’ve lectured, written 5 books, led online groups, and worked with hundreds of individuals and couples in my private practice.

Now, I have distilled the essence of my proven process into a short, informative, and sometimes even  entertaining course. This is as close as it gets to sitting in my office and having a 1 on 1 conversation.

In this course, I share the insights, tips, and tools that have helped so many who are wrestling with the complexities of NeuroDivergent relationships.

I have learned that not everybody has the time to read a book, attend a workshop, or stop by my office and obtain the wealth of knowledge, experience, and practical advice that has enabled me to help so many others change their lives in a positive way. 

That’s why I decided to sit down and video-record everything I know for this course.

I am making this available first to people who have purchased my books, attended my live and virtual events, and are subscribers to my newsletter.

This is the clearest, most up-to-date, and easy-to-grasp version of what has helped so many return to a stronger, healthier, more sane life.

This is the clearest, most up-to-date, and easy-to-grasp version of what has helped so many return to a stronger, healthier, more sane life.

You’ll learn:

  • How to change the way you communicate to achieve greater harmony.

  • How to avoid verbal abuse, micro hits, and gaslighting.

  • How to cope with meltdowns.

  • How to survive burnout.

  • How to apply simple steps on this path to a more fulfilling life.

And because this course is step-by-step, you’ll be able to learn on your own schedule and at your own pace that is just right for you.

A new way of communicating – you will leave able to use the groundbreaking technology that has helped so many others.

If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I get him/her/them to listen to me?”

Or thought, “I’ve tried being kind!” … only to learn that kindness is a partial solution at best (works with you, not with him/her/them).

You might be clinging to techniques that don’t work…..

If you find yourself thinking things like: 

(NeuroTypical)- “I just want my partner to listen/connect to me!”

NeuroDiverse- “I just want my partner to be nice to me.”

This course could be your best opportunity to discover a better way to communicate.

My techniques help stimulate communication breakthroughs for many.

Like them, you’ll be able to cover new ground with your partner using tools most people don't know about.

You don’t have to reinvent the wheel, because I’ve laid out this new approach for you.

Take advantage of the 25 years of hard work and tears that I put into cracking the communication code that helps NeuroDivergent relationships improve --- even thrive.

If it reduces conflicts and creates a better understanding, that’s good! You can then build a new way of communicating that:

  • Creates the foundation for a much more harmonious future.
  • Gives you the freedom to be who you are.
  • Clears up the mysteries you’ve struggled with for so long.

Wouldn’t it be great if you no longer had to walk on eggshells around your partner?

Some say seeking help feels like betraying family. In truth, taking this step toward healing you and your family is a sign of strength. 

This course is the most private and confidential way to take that first step and begin the healing process… no meetings to attend, no webinars to go to,  no names on a public list…

Click the button below if you are ready to take that first step toward healing you and your family...


“I am very grateful to you for the help you have given me in reclaiming my life after a neurodivergent relationship. I remember some Friday nights feeling miserable and empty in the bath, but listening to your live sessions brings me hope. I know it’s not the same but you feel like a mother to us all. Certainly, my autistic mother will never understand me the way you do. Your contribution to the world is magnificent and so important to so many of us. ”

“Dear Dr. Kathy, Thank you so much for the chance given. I have read a lot about you and your work. And I believe I’m not the only one who thinks that you’re a life saver. :)”

“You've really defined the situation I have with my husband of 30 years. This statement said it all: "NTs are interactional, meaning that their communication style is to connect with the other person, person to person — before they discuss a topic. While Autists are transactional, meaning that they listen for the words or topic first, not necessarily to the context of the person who is speaking."”

“Even though I chose to separate from my Aspie partner after several years of frustration and pain, I still read the blogs. It is so incredibly helpful to finally understand the dynamics between neurotypical and neurodiverse individuals. It affirms my decision to leave the relationship. I am savouring my single life and have compassion for the man I loved who could not love me back in a way that nourished me. Your words are so validating! ”

“I cannot over-emphasize what a life saver discovering Kathy has been. Reading one of her blogs for the first time was literally a jaw-dropping event for me when my painful, lonely life within a busy family made sense for the first time.”

“My copy of your Parenting book is riddled with highlighted sections which completely mirror my life. ”

““When my adult aspie son, or whatever the "correct" term is, bought me your book numerous years back, I was just, YES! I knew it was many times the "professionals" or others in my life, that didn't get it!””

““So crazy! This explains a lot [regarding one of Dr. Marshack’s blogs]. . . I believe I’m on the high functioning end of aspergers. Only a few people close to me agree/ most people don’t see how I really am. . . There’s not a ton of info regarding high functioning neuro diverse areas people & I went to a therapist to have her see if I was on the spectrum & I’m so good at appearing neuro typical in short spurts & certain situations/ she dismissed me & said I just have anxiety & depression. . . When I first read about aspergers a few years ago- it felt like things about me finally made sense & I didn’t feel so bad about myself. Just would be nice to have an expert tell me I am neuro diverse. . .Thank you for this article.””

You'll discover a new way of communicating – and leave with the groundbreaking technology that has helped so many others.

Kathy Marshack, Ph.D.

Kathy Marshack Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist with decades of experience as a marriage and family therapist. She specializes in working with NeuroDivergent couples and families and is dedicated to helping those challenged by having or living with autism spectrum disorder.